My name is Sam aka Tony. m Polyamorous, in an open relationship, looking to meet like minded adults and make new friends. My partner and I have a and live together. Update: September 2020; A lot has happened since originally wrote my "about me" on my profile. My partner and I courting another couple, therefore my previous statements, about "not being swingers or looking for threesomes" can no longer be considered "honest and sincere". So as such I'm updating this profile to express our new expansion in tastes, needs, wants and desires. My partner currently still date and enjoy new friends, sex partners, teachers and secondary relationships separately, but now allow the possibility for swap, soft swap and hedonistic play together and or separately. She and I are getting our bearings in the lifestyle. Though we both enjoy fun, sex and friendships, we're are still also hoping for more deep and emotional connections that fit within our Polyamorous natures. We have always been, since the beginning of relationship and life together, ethically non-monogamous, but, depending on the connection, be open to commitment and exclusivity with our secondary partners, in addition to the core relationship we have with each other. We are open to the possibility of love and meaningful connections made through the lifestyle as well as real substantive friendships. Please be patient with me, when it comes to ice breaker messages, when I've flirted and or sent a friend request. I'm not a creep or profile stalker, but I'm cautious about initiating contact. Also be clear, we will NOT be desperate for anything nor anyone. Also she doesn't have a profile on here and depending on how our upcoming meet up goes, I may be changing this profile to a couple's one, instead of just for me. I wish everyone joy, peace, happiness, prosperity, growth, wisdom, grace, longevity, success and love.[B][/B][I][/I]

Mi persona ideal: We prefer mature adults who understand that high-school games on here childish, hence the name "ADULT" friend finder. With that said, we don't expect perfection nor do we accept those who don't understand the word "NO" as well as what respect and courtesy are. We are both on the bigger side of "big", but that doesn't limit the drive or the desire. Though we are open to the relationship aspects of polyamory, we right want to make some FWBs with an emphasis on the "friend" part first. Obviously, like everyone else on here, you must be Drug and disease free, 420 is medicinal in our eyes, therefore not part of that stipulation. She's very shy, and usually needs a lot of time to open up and become comfortable. I'm more a lover than strictly a "fucker", but that doesn't mean I can't and or I won't break a woman off, something proper like! We hope to find multiple friends and partners, to become part of our circle within the lifestyle. We aren't opposed to travel, but family responsibilities dictate that spontaneous trips can't happen. Planning must go into a meet, whether you're local or out in "Timbuktu". The craziness with COVID19 has made travel, interaction and congregating, even in small groups, bothersome if not difficult. So those who have a more free and active lifestyle, may not be interested in our dynamic, but if you're laid back, like to have fun, play "Cards Against Humanity", sing karaoke, or just jibber jabber because it's been forever since you "adulted" and or anything else to build a friendship, even possibly an organization, then drop us message, or reply to mine,if I've reached out first. Till then Ciao for now.