We've tried the "lifestyle" parties, but prefer to just meet people in normal regular people places like bars. We're not shy and have actually met people. We enjoy taking a chance on meeting fun people with an open sense of fun and sexuality. We are both looking forward to making friends who don't insist on bathing suits in the hot tub! Also, we don't play every weekend, far from it. For us, it's a long weekend type of treat every now and again. We also can't nor want to play with everyone who contacts us. It has become the male's domain to curate all the AFF craziness. Ive got my eye out for something that will appeal to her. However, might as well cam or hang out and cast a net for something interesting in the meantime. She will cam on bad weather weekends, but if you ring the IM the male will likely answer.

Mi persona ideal: We've been gravitating towards finding singles. Couples are fun, but it's hard to align 4 people's interests.

I'm very hung and she's very attracted to me. She's not interested in inviting a beer belly into our bedroom. Our idea male is FIT, HUNG, and probably under 50.