*****Updated 07/14***** While I am torn between wanting something real and stable, my sense of adventure and exploration keeps me searching for that near perfect balance. I have lived enough to know exactly what I want and what I need in my life. I am not in a hurry, I can be VERY picky...too picky at times, but I have no rea to settle or make due with convenience. I am here to make friends at least, and if the chemistry and attraction is there (physical and mental)seeing what lies ahead. What do I look for? I don't have a fixed standard however lets be honest, we all know what we find attractive and what turns us on. Someone who is funny as hell and a at heart, can have an amazing conversation that has me laughing and butterflies at the same time. Confident but not cocky! About me.. Do I meet " in real life?" Yes, I do. But there is a way to get my attention and a way to turn me off. The important stuff...I choose " a little extra padding" because I believe in being as true to yourself and others. So many flakes and fakes on here...scanned pics from 10 years ago. I put up recent pictures, ..because lets face it... if I were to wake up next to you that is what you get. I am as real as they come. Nothing fake here So, I am here to find a friend first.. and a sex buddy second. And if you contact me, have a pic please. Thank you My Ideal Per I WOULD LIKE TO FIND a decent, REAL guy who wants to enjoy more than just great sex with me. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications

Mi persona ideal: Knows all about a bed of roses. Someone who actually doesn't hit me up at 2am and asks if I want to get lucky, doesn't use cheap ass lines on me because I will tell you now, that isn't my style and if it is your's...keep looking.