Educated, great father too 10 yr old boy, good looking and self confident...not Tom Cruise but no Freddy Kreuger either...A little heavy currently (you can fix that if I fall for you)...easy going, I'll make you laugh, you'll enjoy my company and find me comfortable to interact with your closest associates. Like to dress well and feel I'm well-spoken, self-suffiecient money wise and know where I came from and honestly feel more comfortable mingling in a blue collar crowd rather than stuffy uppiddy crowd. I subscribe to the adage "lady in public, but freak in the bed"..with apoligies to Lil John..and think great sex is a solid foundation of a good relationship...BUT other things come first such as honesty, sincerity, and most of all trust.

Mi persona ideal: When she starts calling me vile names and meaning it I'll know I'm on the right track. LOL...kidding. At my age just looking for someone with common interests..kids or no kids not an issue. If you do have kids they better be respectful to their mother. Woman hung up on old flames or crazy ex's still lurking not interested. So done with that. Still learning about myself even at 39. Attractiveness important...(need an attraction) but you don't have to be Paris Hilton either. Not looking for trophies (anymore) now just want someone with mutual respect, too share good times, and bad (hopefully few) and grow together. I beleive we've all been molded by our life experiences, for better or worse, we could all most likely paint ourselves as victims and be bitter or we could just move on and try and be happy with new start. Thats what I would like. Kids, no issue, smoking or drinking no issue, hopefully someone who can carry themselves well in public and not someone who is looking for sugar daddy or whose life is one crisis after another.