I have an easy going personality, somewhat quiet with a group of people but with one person I open up more. I'm a bit of a lone wolf person... look up Sigma male and you will understand the nature of my personality. I don't really like going to noisy bars, and loud meeting or gathering places too much. I prefer quieter places to meet like coffee shops, and small restaurants. I do like going to a party especially where there are friends. That being said, I do enjoy going to rock concerts and musical performances. I have a fairly busy career life. On occasion I travel. I have found what makes me happy in my life... I'm not looking for that from anyone else (and neither should you), I just want to share what I have with a willing partner. Why am I here when I'm already married: I'm in a dry marriage. I'm only human, and would rather not live a lifetime without the sex that most normal people need.

Mi persona ideal: It's hard to pin down exactly what my ideal partner is, but I'm pretty sure if I met them and got to know them then I would know. Just telling from a couple photos and words is not enough.

I'm looking for a no-strings attached type of relationship, I'm open to one time encounters, but would like something that is ongoing if we connect.
I would prefer one on one with a woman.

I like a woman that is a bit spontaneous. You should be down to earth yet wild in bed.

I want a woman that likes sex as much as I do, in other words where we both enjoy what we do with each other - no hang ups, or judgmental attitudes.

Update April 26, 2024:
I have to say this because life is too short for games and wasting my time...
I'm not looking for people flake out on me, or who tell me one thing where something else is clearly the case.
If you are not looking for a long term FWB and instead want something short term or just one time then that's fine - but please tell me up front so I don't waste my time and energy on you or get disappointed along the way.
If you are not exclusive that's fine I'm looking for casual too.
If you really know me I always am completely honest in my intentions, and I don't think it's too much to ask for that in return. The truth is fine I can deal with it...
I realize this is a hookup site and it's not supposed to be about love of course (as there are other sites for committed romantic relationships, and most of those here are either probably either not truthful at best or at worst are fake/cat fishing), but I'm looking for up front honesty, respect and truthful representation.

Update May 3rd:
Given recent and past events in my life both an element of ancient mythology comes to mind that is common to most especially sea faring cultures. The Spanish tell of the legend of "La Sirena". This is like the mermaid that calls for men and lures them under some hoax to use as they will for one reason or another. Then when they are done with them they either cast them away.
I'm done with f#$%ing mermaids that I've been meeting over and over again in my life. I need a partner that is constant and true. One that accepts me for who I am, and one that actually deserves me as well. Real, genuine, constant, and true, but most of all someone that finally understands me.

¿Cuáles son tus cantantes o grupos favoritos?:
Pink Floyd, Nirvana, Led Zeppelin, AC/DC, Black Sabbath

Cuenta una de tus fantasías sexuales favoritas. No te reprimas.:
Pizza girl shows up to deliver a pizza, I give her a big tip
and then she comes in to show me how much she appreciates
it... use your imagination.

¿Qué tipo de actividades sexuales te calientan?:
Dar sexo oral, Recibir sexo oral, Juguetes (vibradores/dildos/etc.), Juego de roles, Tríos, Masturbaición mutua

¿Qué factores te son los mas importantes a la hora de buscar un compañero sexual?:
Atracción física, Fetiches iguales/parecidos, Habilidad para ser discreto, Apetito sexual, Conforme a un compromiso de relaciones sexuales abiertas, Un poco de cada uno

¿Has tenido cibersexo alguna vez?:
Lo he intentado pero no es lo mismo.

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