We are a happily married, secure couple in an ethically non-monogamous relationship and identify as poly and progressive swingers. What that means is that we have sex with other people with the permission and encouragement from each other although we are open to forming friendships and relationships with the right people. We both enjoy the lifestyle and cannot imagine our life any other way. We have been in the lifestyle since 2011 and hope to be in it for a very long time. With that said, we do take breaks every now and then just because life can sometimes get in the way of fun. As far as our preferences, that can sometimes be very difficult to describe. While everyone hopes to find the most attractive people to play with, everyone's definition in what they find attractive is so very different. What we find attractive may not be exactly what you find attractive and vice versa. We believe good chemistry is what makes someone attractive to us beyond anything else. We require that a first meeting always has no expectations. We are not opposed to play on a first meeting, although we want the pressure and expectation of play be taken off the table before everyone involved has an opportunity to decide that playing is the right thing to do. We have very few rules, although they are our rules and we do not bend on them for anyone. First, condoms are a must. It does not matter if you are "fixed" or on birth control, we do not feel it is in anyone's best interest that we do not take that precaution. With that said, we feel that oral sex without barriers is an acceptable risk, although we will not turn down anyone who prefers to take that precaution. Second, everyone involved has to be on board. We do not "take one for the team" and we do not expect our playmates to do that either. And third, be respectful. While dirty talk can be fun once we all get to know each other, we will not respond to anyone who does not try to get to know us first before starting with all the dirty things you want to do to either one of us. Beyond those three things, we are open to most anything except extreme pain and overly gross(no blood, water sports or scat). And once we know the chemistry is there, please feel free to discuss fantasies without our judgement. We can be pretty kinky and have fantasies and things we like beyond your typical lifestyle couple, although you do not need to be open to the things we like. For us, it is about having a good time, connecting with each other and our playmates and wonderful, open communication without consequence. We want to know what you enjoy and if we are all into it, we have no problem helping out with your fantasies. Now a bit about us individually: He is 6'1", 200 lbs with an average build. He has an average 6 1/2" cock with a wonderful curve. He is very much a giver and has learned from all of his experiences to know that every woman is different and that it is not about what he thinks will feel good to you, it is about what actually feels good. He tries to be aware of sounds, movement and looks that you give and is open to direction or changing things to bring you the most pleasure. It is also very important that the pressure of performance is not there. He will always try to help you have a good time, although in this lifestyle, guys can have off nights. If this happens, he promises to do his best to bring you pleasure in other ways. He loves to watch his wife with other men and women and is a 100% believer in compersion. He is also bi, although does not expect for you to be and will never cross any boundaries. With that said, single guys must be bi. We are not looking for straight single guts at the moment. She is 5'7", curvy, 190lbs and losing a bit each and every month. She enjoys a man who can take control although she loves to give(especially blow jobs). She is a squirter, although not for everyone. Also, she considers herself bi-selective. She likes girl play without expectation and has to be in the mood for it. If girl play is a requirement to meet, then she may not feel completely comfortable with that type of expectation. With that said, she normally does not have a problem kissing or touching other girls as well as receiving. She just is not always in the mood to go down on another girl. In conclusion, we are laid back, open and drama free. We have a very logical view when it comes to the lifestyle and understand that everyone plays different, everyone needs to go at different paces and that everyone should have the freedom to be themselves without judgement. We respect your rules and expect you to do the same with our rules. Above all, we just want everyone to have a good time. We hope to hear from some amazing people and make some new connections soon. PUT THIS WARNING ON YOUR PROFILE PEOPLE. GO GOGGLE YOUR PROFILE NAME AND SEE WHY. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

Mi persona ideal: The ideal person is subjective and every situation and person is different. We just want to find couples and singles that we can connect with and will respect both of us. With that said, we are very interested in finding a bi guy to join us both.

¿Qué tipo de actividades sexuales te calientan?:
Dar sexo oral, Recibir sexo oral, Sexo anal, Juguetes (vibradores/dildos/etc.), Fetiches, Bondage ligero, Azotes, Tríos, Masturbaición mutua, Filmar "Películas" caseras, Participar en fotografía erótica, Voyeurismo, Esposas/grilletes, Vendar los ojos, Masajes

¿Qué factores te son los mas importantes a la hora de buscar un compañero sexual?:
Experiencia sexual, Atracción física, Habilidad para ser discreto, Abierto a los tríos y/o orgías, Apetito sexual, Libre disposición a discutir y probar lo que sea, Conforme a un compromiso de relaciones sexuales abiertas

¿Has tenido cibersexo alguna vez?:
Lo he intentado pero no es lo mismo.

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